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How to Encourage Growth Mindset in Students

Joe Romano • June 25, 2025

Kids can learn anything. They just don’t always believe it.


That’s where teachers come in.


Teachers do more than teach facts. They build belief. They shape how kids see themselves as learners. And in today’s world, kids don’t just need answers—they need resilience.


That’s where the growth mindset comes in.


If you’re an elementary teacher, and you want more confidence in students, keep reading. This article cuts through the buzzwords. You’ll get simple steps that work in real classrooms with real kids.


Let’s jump in. 


What Is a Growth Mindset?



Put simply, a growth mindset means believing that you can get smarter with effort.


It means:

  • Mistakes help you learn
  • Your brain grows when you work hard
  • Struggle isn’t failure—it’s part of the process


The opposite? A fixed mindset. That’s when kids think they “just aren’t good at math” or “will never be a reader.” They shut down before they even try.


And let me tell you—I see both every week. I perform in schools across the country. Some kids light up at a challenge. Others shrink. The difference? It’s not ability. It’s belief.

 


1. Praise the Process, Not the Person


“You’re so smart” sounds nice. But it actually trains kids to fear being not smart.


Instead, praise how they worked:

  • “I saw how hard you stuck with that.”
  • “You really used a great strategy there.”
  • “You made a mistake—and learned from it. That’s growth.”


This shifts their focus from talent to effort. And that builds real, lasting confidence.


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2. Share Your Struggles


Teachers seem like experts to kids. But they need to see your mistakes, too.


Talk about:

  • A subject you found hard in school
  • A time you failed but kept trying
  • A skill you’re still working on today


This makes trying feel safe. It shows that effort is normal. And it sends one powerful message: Everyone is still learning. 


3. Use “Yet” as a Teaching Tool


If a student says, “I can’t read this,” teach them to add one word: yet.

  • “I can’t do fractions... yet.”
  • “I don’t get this... yet.”
  • “I’m not fast at reading... yet.”


It’s small. But it changes everything.


“Yet” leaves the door open. It tells the brain: this is hard now, but it won’t always be.


Make a bulletin board of “Yet” phrases. Practice saying them out loud as a class. Model it yourself when something goes wrong in your day.

 


4. Celebrate Mistakes


This one takes guts.


Most kids fear mistakes. But in a growth mindset classroom? Mistakes are gold.


Start a daily or weekly “Favorite Oops” moment. Pick a time when someone made a mistake—and learned something. Clap. Cheer. Celebrate.


This helps kids stop hiding their struggles. They begin to see errors as stepping stones.

 


5. Teach the Brain Like a Muscle


Kids love visuals. So show them what effort does.


Explain:

  • Your brain grows when you try new things
  • Mistakes spark connections in your brain
  • Repeating skills builds brain “muscle memory”


Draw it. Act it out. Make posters. Show brain scans if your students are old enough.

When kids understand how learning works, they stop fearing it.

 


6. Use Growth Mindset Language Every Day


This one’s simple. But powerful.


Make these phrases part of your classroom:

  • “Let’s try a new way.”
  • “This is hard. That means your brain is working.”
  • “You don’t have it yet—but you’re getting closer.”
  • “Struggle is part of learning.”


You might feel silly at first. But over time, it becomes second nature. And guess what? Your students will start saying it back to you.

 


7. Reflect After Every Challenge


After a test, a group project, or even a bad day, ask reflection questions:

  • What did you try that worked?
  • What was hard?
  • What might you try next time?


This trains students to pause, think, and improve. And it helps them connect effort with growth.

 


8. Use Stories and Role Models


Kids learn a ton from characters. Use books, movies, and real-life stories where people grow through failure.


Ask:

  • What did they do when it got hard?
  • Did they give up? Or keep going?
  • What helped them grow?


One of my favorite things to do in my school assemblies is act out these moments. Kids remember stories more than lectures. Especially when they’re funny, loud, or a little over-the-top.


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9. Set Micro Goals


Big goals overwhelm kids. Small wins build momentum.


Try this:

  • One more sentence than yesterday
  • Two more minutes of focus
  • One new word tried in writing


Each small win builds confidence in students. And those tiny wins? They snowball.

 

10. Never Stop Modeling Growth Yourself


If you’re reading this, you already care. That means you’re still learning, too.


Share what you’re working on—inside or outside the classroom. Show your students that growth never stops.

That’s how they start to believe it for themselves.

 


Final Thoughts


Helping kids build a growth mindset doesn’t take a special program. It takes small, daily choices. It takes noticing effort. Naming progress. Celebrating the hard stuff.


You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be real.


If you want to build more confidence in students, and help them grow in every subject—not just the ones they’re “good” at—this is where to start.


I’ve seen it work in classrooms. I’ve seen it spark change in school assemblies. And I know you can do it, too.

Let’s raise a generation of kids who don’t run from hard things…


They run toward them.


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